Awesome review, man! You make me feel worse and worse for not going to this. I can't wait to see MMI headlining in December; will be crazy. That breakdown in Our Kings is just great. ADTR sounds sick, but I wonder if they'll keep touring anytime soon. DWP will tour in support the new album soon, which should result in a good show. And I don't know what you're talking about for Acacia, they're probably the most violent band I've seen live. Awesome show.
Overall, I tend not to care too much about crowds, and you shouldn't either. You like the bands, like the music, so don't worry about being labeled. Just try not to hardcore dance unless it's an actual hardcore band... kids these days