That BTBAM setlist would be awesome I would throw in Backwards Marathon,Prequel To The Sequel,Roboturner or Alaska and i would would the happiest man on Planet Earth.
The In Flames's setlist is very good. Bullet Ride would be an awesome opener. I like all of In Flames's albums minus A Sense Of Purpose so i would proably chuck those tracks out but regardless that would be an awesome set
Lastly that 3IOB set is perfect IMO.