Calm down man it's only one set. All of the songs you mentioned they should play they still do play. Unfortunately not at every show like they used to but I like them switching certian songs up every night but also it causes some sets to be subpar like this one is. The comment about them getting set in their ways and never change is way off. They're one of the few bands that actually changes songs in the set every night. I with you when it comes to getting NEM out of there. They shoudl've retired that after the tour for the Black Album i can't understand why the band has such a hard on for it. The same goes for Sad But True i like the song but it doesn't need to be there every set. If they wanna do something off the Black Album there they should switch SBT up with Wherever I May Roam which is a much better song and hasn't really been in the set at all over the last few months.
If you wanna see how they do change their set on a nightly basis go to metontour.com They've got setslists from all the shows they've done this tour.